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Mu\u017eov r\u00e1no zauj\u00edma to, \u010do si daj\u00fa … ","datePublished":"2016-12-22","dateModified":"2023-04-28","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.tehno.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.tehno.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/dac37d998cdbc92cc7ee5d23d4d689a369122af40c5450007470acab45b61d68?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/dac37d998cdbc92cc7ee5d23d4d689a369122af40c5450007470acab45b61d68?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"tehno.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.tehno.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a279668_w2042_t1601665002.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.tehno.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a279668_w2042_t1601665002.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.tehno.sk\/myslim-myslis-myslime\/","wordCount":545,"articleBody":"Pozn\u00e1te to. Ke\u010f sa \u017eena r\u00e1no prebud\u00ed, rozbieha sa neust\u00e1ly koloto\u010d my\u0161lienok nad t\u00fdm, ak\u00e9 r\u00f4zne povinnosti doma a v pr\u00e1ci ju \u010dakaj\u00fa. Mu\u017eov r\u00e1no zauj\u00edma to, \u010do si daj\u00fa na ra\u0148ajky a \u010di maj\u00fa vy\u017eehlen\u00fa ko\u0161e\u013eu, ktor\u00fa si do pr\u00e1ce chc\u00fa zobra\u0165. Ve\u013ek\u00fd rozdiel medzi mu\u017emi a \u017eenami je pr\u00e1ve v ich myslen\u00ed, z \u010doho \u010dasto pramenia aj nedorozumenia a h\u00e1dky medzi partnermi. \u017deny s\u00fa u\u017e raz tak\u00e9.  Prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eaj\u00fa o v\u0161etkom mo\u017enom, v duchu rie\u0161ia konkr\u00e9tne situ\u00e1cie, ktor\u00e9 sa e\u0161te nestali a \u010dasto sa ani nestan\u00fa, ale \u017eena chce by\u0165 pripraven\u00e1 na v\u0161etky alternat\u00edvy. Ke\u010f vo chv\u00edli, kedy m\u00e1 \u017eena potrebu veci \u201erie\u0161i\u0165\u201c jej partner povie, aby sa uvo\u013enila a to\u013eko nad v\u0161etk\u00fdm neprem\u00fd\u0161\u013eala, je h\u00e1dka a spor na svete. \u017dena jednoducho nedok\u00e1\u017ee pochopi\u0165, ako m\u00f4\u017eu mu\u017ei v\u0161etko tak zjednodu\u0161ova\u0165. A mu\u017ei zasa naopak nevedia str\u00e1vi\u0165, \u017ee \u017eeny maj\u00fa v g\u00e9noch rie\u0161enie mno\u017estva konkr\u00e9tnych probl\u00e9mov. (Aj ke\u010f to v kone\u010dnom d\u00f4sledku \u010dasto probl\u00e9my nie s\u00fa). Nad \u010d\u00edm \u017eeny prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eaj\u00fa? \u00b7 o minulosti – \u017eeny sa \u010dasto um\u00e1raj\u00fa my\u0161lienkami a spomienkami na minulos\u0165, nad r\u00f4znymi mo\u017enos\u0165ami, ktor\u00e9 mohli urobi\u0165 inak a nad t\u00fdm \u201e\u010do by bolo keby\u201c. \u00b7 o pr\u00edtomnosti \u2013 mno\u017estvo povinnost\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 na \u017eene s\u00fa jej prin\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa ve\u013ea mo\u017enost\u00ed na prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eanie. \u017deny si niekedy vo svojej mysli aj z mali\u010dkost\u00ed dok\u00e1\u017eu vytvori\u0165 ve\u013ek\u00fd probl\u00e9m, \u010do im potom br\u00e1ni v ich samotnom rie\u0161en\u00ed. \u00b7 o bud\u00facnosti \u2013 samozrejme, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd prem\u00fd\u0161\u013ea o tom, \u010do bude zajtra. Ale \u017eeny \u010dasto tieto my\u0161lienky sp\u00e1jaj\u00fa so strachom z bud\u00facnosti, \u010do im br\u00e1ni v tom, aby sa na \u0148u te\u0161ili, robili si pl\u00e1ny a sn\u00edvali. Pr\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9 myslenie a rie\u0161enie vec\u00ed \u017een\u00e1m neprid\u00e1va na psychickej pohode ani na ich zov\u0148aj\u0161ku a kr\u00e1se. \u010casto sa stret\u00e1vame s prepadnut\u00fdmi a bled\u00fdmi tv\u00e1rami, ktor\u00e9 si za to ale \u010dasto m\u00f4\u017eu samy.  \u010co robi\u0165? Rie\u0161enie je pomerne jednoduch\u00e9 a pramen\u00ed v \u017eene samotnej. Ona sama si mus\u00ed rozk\u00e1za\u0165, do akej miery nech\u00e1 svoje my\u0161lienky, aby ju ovl\u00e1dali. Nikomu toti\u017e nepom\u00f4\u017ee tr\u00e1pi\u0165 sa nad minulos\u0165ou, ktor\u00fa u\u017e aj tak nezmen\u00edme a bud\u00facnos\u0165 n\u00e1s aj tak po\u010dk\u00e1. Treba \u017ei\u0165 pre pr\u00edtomn\u00fd okamih a u\u017e\u00edva\u0165 si ka\u017ed\u00fd jeden de\u0148, do ktor\u00e9ho sa prebud\u00edme. To, \u017ee sa na n\u00e1s valia starosti je samozrejm\u00e9, ka\u017ed\u00fd ich m\u00e1. Je ale na ka\u017edom, ako sa k nim postav\u00ed. Ke\u010f si \u017eena uvedom\u00ed, \u017ee pr\u00edli\u0161n\u00fdm prem\u00fd\u0161\u013ean\u00edm a rozpitv\u00e1van\u00edm situ\u00e1cie ubli\u017euje sama sebe a niekedy aj svojim bl\u00edzkym a aspo\u0148 tro\u0161ku to zmen\u00ed, nakoniec zist\u00ed, \u017ee tie probl\u00e9my \u010dasto neboli a\u017e tak\u00e9 ve\u013ek\u00e9, ako sa zdali. Chce to len na sebe popracova\u0165 a u\u017e dne\u0161n\u00fd de\u0148 m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 kraj\u0161\u00ed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         4.3\/5 - (13 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Mysl\u00edm, mysl\u00ed\u0161, mysl\u00edme","item":"https:\/\/www.tehno.sk\/myslim-myslis-myslime\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]